...of Taking Care of Yourself

Talk It Out:
Losing Weight (and Not Finding it Again Later!)

 

"What has worked for you as you have tried to lose weight? What hasn’t worked? What strategies help you maintain weight loss over the long haul? Based on your own experiences, what advice would you give to someone who wants to trim down and shape up?" ~ Nancy


Responses:

"I do not diet but I do have some tricks that seem to work well for me when it comes to slimming down after having a baby or after holidays, etc. I don't eat meat so my diet is fairly healthy. I do have a terrible weakness for sugars so I try to make it one square of good dark chocolate that I suck on (chewing doesn't allow me to enjoy the rich flavors as well and sucking on the chocolate helps the taste last longer in your mouth!). I also eat five smaller meals throughout the day instead of two or three huge meals. I snack frequently on fruits and vegetables. 

I stay home with my children and they are home schooled. We are together almost all the time while my husband is away on long business trips. I use as many opportunities to exercise as I can while watching my children's activities. For instance, there is a playground near where they have baseball games. I try to use the monkey bars, pull up bars, basketball court, etc. Even waiting to cross the street, you can be doing toe lifts (basically, work your calf muscles while bouncing on the balls of your feet) or walking in place. The higher you lift your knees, the more muscle you build and the more fat you burn up. I work in our yard doing general upkeep, chopping wood (with a sledge hammer and wedges) or gardening.  Best of all, these activities are all free - no gym fees, babysitter charges or extra gas to burn going from place to place!" ~ Melissa

 


"I've been using sparkpeople.com It's free and such a great support system and accountability. The motivation, information and training is fabulous. I've been serious with it since mid January and have lost 30 pounds and 41 inches from various parts of my body. I use a pedometer (Omron HJ112) to track my steps per day. When I started I barely achieved 5000 steps but now I'm over 15000 steps a day. I walk a minimum of 60 minutes at an aerobic rate. I highly recommend sparkpeople.com  It's awesome." ~ Rebecca J


 
"I empathize with anyone. Feeling like a rising muffin is frustrating! Going through the same thing. I have recently lost 10 pounds and several inches from my waist and thighs. My strategy was really simple. Move, move, move. Two workout sessions a day 15 - 30 minutes each depending on my free time. I also drink lots of water and eat more veggies. I replaced one meal a day with salad and made sure to eat a high fiber cereal for breakfast. Boring but it works." ~ Suzi

 
"I joined Weight Watchers in February of 2007.  I am proud to say I have lost 19 pounds. My goal is 24 -- leaving me 5 more to go.  This is a fabulous program, very easy to follow and the meetings are a blast. At the weekly meetings we exchange recipes and low point snack ideas. Wished I would have joined sooner. You have to want to lose weight.  This is something you can't do half -heartedly.  It is a new way to cook--for life." ~ Tonya

 
"Diet alone won't do it...Exercise -- simple walking -- will do wonders. Water or water with lemon -- drink it before, with, and between meals. It will do wonders to fill you up, remove fat, and keep your blood sugar down. Measure what you eat. Eyeballing portions don’t work, and watch those portions. Reduce fat...skim milk has just as much calcium and no fat and is better for you. Have snacks -- small snacks between meals. A  V-8 is my afternoon snack, and a glass of milk is my bedtime snack." ~ Patti


"I think first of all the key to success is to eliminate the word 'diet' and move toward the mindset of healthy lifestyle change. Diet implies deprivation. A healthy lifestyle does not. Choosing healthier foods is good for us and gives us more energy; therefore we do more (whether it be bicycling, walking, gardening, etc.) and the healthy cycle begins. Eliminate the word 'can't.'  'I can't eat that piece of cake.'  Yes you can, in moderation. Of course you can't have cake every day.  Once you get in the habit of eating healthier, your body will crave those good foods. I have a difficult time grabbing food at a fast food joint because although I am hungry, I know that after I eat that hamburger or fries, I will feel tired and sluggish. While I personally do not need to lose weight, I need to watch what I eat to have enough energy to keep up with the kids and to keep me from catching all the illnesses that make their rounds every year. In terms of exercise, for me the key is to keep it fun and make it a routine part of your day (like brushing your teeth). I have tried the 'buddy system' and that worked until the 'buddy' obtained a part-time job and the times she could come were hit and miss. Find a time that works for you and schedule it in. Be flexible. When my kids were little I would exercise (with videos or lift weights) while they were napping. When they were 4 and 5 I would exercise at home at a time when I knew they would be content playing by themselves. When some of the older ones were at sports practices I would walk the arena stairs or walk around the soccer field.  Now that all six are in school (ages 7 - 16) my husband and I try and walk in the evenings after the two youngest are in bed and the others babysit. After about three weeks you will 'crave' these walks. Lastly, if you fall off the horse, get back on. If circumstances are that you missed your walks/workout for two or three days or however long, get back to your routine as soon as you can. Good luck ." ~ GG 

"My secret to success? www.fitday.com. I used to attend WW, but found myself paying just to weigh in, or else paying both WW and a babysitter. Fitday keeps me accountable without the guilt factor. I also invested in a nice digital scale and weigh in daily. Since my departure from WW in February of this year, I've lost 14 lbs. If you use Fitday online it's free, or you can buy the program for your PC for something like $20." ~ Emily



"I've gained and lost many people over the years. :-)  About two years ago I found 'Setting Captives Free' and not only lost weight but kept it off.  It is a Bible-based course, The Lord's Table, and is FREE.  It is definitely a win-win situation.  You grow spiritually and losing weight is just an added blessing.  Check it out at www.settingcaptivesfree.com." ~ Mary

"The South Beach Diet changed my life!  It is the only one that has worked for me, especially without adding exercise.  I know, I know -- I should exercise, too, and I’m trying to include walking regularly, but at least I’m losing weight!  After reading the paperback with its 'Shed Belly Fat First!' teaser, I began the diet two months ago and have lost 9 pounds.  Although that may not sound like a lot, I believe weight stays off longer if eliminated slowly. I followed the very strict Phase I for two weeks, and the results were immediate:  within two days my clothes fit better and I felt better. No headache, growling stomach, or weak knees on this diet. I will stay in Phase II until I shed at least one or two more pounds. In Phase III I will gradually reintroduce more of the foods that I know cause weight gain for me, but I will do so in moderation, because I enjoy feeling and looking better than before in my clothes.     

At first it was tough to give up bread, crackers, chips, potatoes, and sweets.  But any diet that lets me have crunchy peanut butter, pistachios, walnuts, and avocado can’t be all bad.  Now I crave salads and find that one or two crackers or only a few bites of bread or dessert are satisfying!  And I don’t have to have those at every meal to feel full.  It’s much healthier than the Atkins diet, to which it is often compared (and I only lost 4 lbs. when I tried that one a few years ago L).  S. Beach is based on the glycemic index of foods, so you eliminate or severely restrict the bad carbs that turn to sugar and are stored as fat more readily, and you enjoy 'good' carbs sparingly.  [I could go on, but I know you need responses to be short and to the point.] 

At 52, I was depressed about middle-aged spread, as I found the pounds creeping up and my clothes just didn’t feel good or fit well. I couldn’t afford a new wardrobe and refused to consider bigger clothes as an option this time!  When I finally had enough, I was determined and haven’t looked back. I consider this a lifetime change in my eating habits. In fact, several of the foods I’ve cut back on don’t taste as good as I remember, when I sample them now.  BTW, in a review of diets I read recently, the Sonoma diet is supposed to be similar to SBD, and I may check it out if I get bored.  I’ve also heard that Suzanne Somers’ (sp?) diet is similar.  But right now SBD is the diet for me." ~ Pamela

 

Editor's Note: Thanks to these subscribers for taking the time to respond.

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