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CTC Readers' Poll:
Personal New Year's Traditions 

 In the December 15, 2007 issue of the newsletter, Counting the Cost editor 
Nancy Twigg asked readers this question:

"What are your own personal New Year’s traditions? How do you welcome the coming year and get it off to a good start?"

Responses:

"My personal tradition for many years has been to sit down and reflect on how the year ending has gone. What have I accomplished? What do I wish I had accomplished? What are my goals for the coming year? I try to limit the goals to a dozen or less. If I accomplish 3 of these over the year I am doing good. This is because my priorities change over the course of the year. Then I fill in my new calendar." ~ Robyn
 

"Because the schools are closed, I use the end of the year to renew the bond with my children. I take time off for their winter break and try to plan activities that they will enjoy each day (letting them participate in the decision). We’ll go to the zoo, visit museums, have movie days, or anything else we can do together without worrying about housework or anything else. It’s like taking a vacation at home!

On New Year’s Eve proper, I’ve had a tradition of gathering friends at my house. Rather than spending a lot of money to go someplace fancy and drink ourselves silly, we have a potluck dinner. Then we’ll often sit around and play games or have a gift exchange to pass the time until midnight. That’s when we’ll turn on the TV for a few minutes to catch the countdown and heckle all the party animals trying to get a moment in the spotlight. Best of all, there is space for everyone to stay over rather than risking the drive home after other celebrations let out. It’s nice to have the companionship of friends and know that they are all safe that night." ~ Jeanette


 
"I do things in January that I can never remember to do the rest of the year. This includes random things like:
I clean out the medicine cabinets and get rid of the expired medicines and ointments and buy new ones. I also review first aid supplies and buy as needed.
I clean out the overhead light bowls to get rid of bugs and wash them.
I clean under my kitchen sink, under oven drawers, etc.
I change batteries in the smoke alarms.
I check the dates on stored emergency water jugs and supplies and buy fresh supplies as needed.
I keep an index card going of all these odd things to remind me in January." ~ Betty

"Our tradition for New Year's Eve is to put together a puzzle in the evening while watching some of the entertainment shows, a toast at midnight with sparkling grape juice, and off to bed. My personal 'New Year' resolutions take place in October on my birthday. It's the time I make resolutions/changes to exercise, diet and self-improvement plans. I almost always stick to these resolutions. I try not to make any resolutions for the New Year but if I do, they are about my house, yard, environment, community, etc., and I make them short-term goals. It is much more enjoyable to say good-bye to the old year and welcome the new one without all the pressure of resolutions. I also take a look at my marriage every year on my anniversary." ~ Michele


"In some ways, I like New Year's Day even more than Christmas. It is a new beginning. A second chance. The days between Christmas and New Year's are spent reflecting over the past year... what goals were met or unmet. On New Year's Day, my husband and I solidify our goals for the coming year. It gives meaning and purpose to the new year. I eagerly look forward to what we will accomplish." ~ Cindy


"I write in a journal daily, just a note about what happened that day. The thing is, I use a daily calendar/journal and I use it for about 3 years. In other words, each page will have about 3 years worth of memories from that particular day. It’s fun to look back at what was happening a year or two ago on this day and see how we have been blessed or how we worried about things that turned out better than I could have imagined or even to recall times of sorrow. This is my year to buy a new journal so that’s been part of my end of year routine. Another annual routine is to pick out a verse to live by for the year.  I started about 15 years ago with Philippians 2:14 – do everything without arguing or complaining.  Applying that verse to my life every day made me realize I needed lots of improvement. Other years, I’ve claimed God’s promises to guide me or reminders to be thankful and joyful.  I have several friends who also do this and we share our verses and why they were chosen.  It’s a good thing. And one more – I usually sit down in early January and roll all the coins I’ve collected in my piggy banks over the previous year." ~ Cindy in Georgia


 
"I would like to share a New Year tradition that I started for myself several years ago.
I have several questions that I reflect on and write answers down for myself at the end of each year/start of the next. The questions are:
1.  Who were the most stimulating people in my life during the year?
2.  What was the most meaningful spiritual experience?
3.  What were the most significant family moments?
4.  What was the biggest contributor to my personal growth?
5.  What was the biggest blunder I committed?
6.  What caused me the greatest sadness?
7.  What caused me the greatest joy?
8.  What was the best marriage moment?
9.  What was the fondest memory I have with each of the children?
10.  What was the friend moment I cherish from the year?
11.  What was I most thankful for this year?
12.  What was one answer to prayer that blew me away?
 
Thanks." ~ Kathy

"For the past few New Year's, I've kept my resolutions in my journal to keep track of them.  I like to start a few nights before the New Year to journal the changes I've made in the current year and my resolutions from previous New Year's. Then, reflecting on these things, I start my new list of resolutions with prayer and reflection.  This helps me see what works for me and my family and what doesn't.  It also builds my confidence to see the changes I've made for the better and to see how God works in our lives." ~ Tiffany in Mo.



"New Years Eve is also my husband's birthday. We usually go to a nice restaurant, eat a chocolate pie for dessert and then take in the neighbor's fireworks." ~ Lisa 

"I enjoy watching the parades in the morning so I didn't want to make a big meal (traditionally here it is mashed potatoes, sauerkraut, and pork). Also, my men didn't want to miss the football games to eat the meal. So we decided to name New Year's Day 'Junk Food Day.' I set out a spread of foods, teenie weenies in the crock pot, shrimp which my husband makes around 12:00 (a special treat), junk foods the kids want (one per child), and other fun stuff like bologna and cheese cubes, fruit and veggies, etc. Then we just eat whenever we want and watch TV and movies all day. Even though my sons are married, they still come over for Junk Food Day." ~ Melodie


Editor's Note: Thanks to all these readers who took time to write!

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